If we’re completely honest with ourselves, we all want to fit in, right? You may get a handful of people who are “happy to be unique,” but for the most part, we all want to be alike. Why? Because it’s comfortable to follow the crowd, even when they’re heading in a sinful direction. And I mean, if everyone else is doing something, surely it can’t be so wrong. Being different often leads to being judged, and no one wants that, especially in our generation where cancel culture is particularly prominent.
I’ve fallen into this dangerous mindset again and again and again. I don’t want to stand out for fear of being disliked. I don’t want to be unusual for fear of being rejected. I don’t want to be labeled as weird or unique for fear of losing popularity. Sound familiar? I think it’s a fairly common feeling, but that doesn’t make it any less deadly.
Breaking it down
I know that may be a little dramatic, but hear me out. The Bible specifically talks about Christians being different. Maybe not in those exact words, but the general idea is the same. Romans 12:2 says, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.”
It doesn’t get more straightforward than that. “Do not conform.” In other words, do not accommodate or do not comply with the pattern of this world. Why? Because this world’s ruler is Satan, and he is promoting everything that contradicts God’s Word (2 Corinthians 4:4.) 1 Peter 5:8 tells us, “Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.” Satan wants you to give in to the pressures of this world because when you do, you oppose God (James 4:4.)
It’s also super important (and encouraging) to remember God has uniquely gifted each one of us (1 Peter 4:10.) We all have different strengths, which, when combined, make the body of Christ fully functional. No two people are the same because we’re called to play different roles. When we try to be like someone else, we go against our divinely ordained nature.
Jesus came into this world as a light so that those who believe in Him no longer need to walk in darkness (John 12:46.) The purpose of light is to illuminate. Jesus doesn’t want the Devil to continue deceiving us. John 10:10 says, “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” Jesus is offering us an abundant life. A life filled with purpose and joy, now and forever.
The world supposedly offers the same thing. Ads are constantly being thrown in our faces that tell us if get the latest electronic device, we’ll be happy. Or if we get the brand-new car, we’ll finally be content. We live in such a shallow and materialistic generation, but the truth is, we won’t be satisfied by an object or person besides Jesus Christ. 1 John 2:17 says, “The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever.” Focus on eternity because this life will be over before you know it. Matthew 16:26 asks us what the purpose is behind gaining the whole world but losing what really matters, our soul.
Live it out!
I know it’s tough to be different and to be lights in this incredibly dark world, but here are some hopeful words straight from the mouth of Jesus: “You, dear children, are from God and have overcome them because the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world.” (John 4:4) When you feel like giving in to the pressures of society, just remember you’re already on the winning side because God is on your team. He will strengthen you and help you overcome temptation (1 Corinthians 10:13.)
One final note, you’re living in this world for a reason. Mark 16:15 says, “He [Jesus] said to them, ‘Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation.'” So while you’re here, spread the good news! Don’t waste the time you’ve been given; seize every opportunity to talk about Christ (Ephesians 5:15-17.) In a world that glorifies self, glorify God instead. Let your life be your greatest testimony as a Christian.